New York Cheating Wife Shoots Husband In Bed

A New York husband was shot in the head as he slept in bed on November 14, 2013. He survived the incident. Initially the husband,  Ken Dearden, thought an intruder had shot him. Now, a year after the incident, he believes his cheating wife shot him in an attempt to kill him and avoid a messy divorce.

Ken Dearden said his wife had been cheating since 2011. He claims her boyfriend was pressuring her to end her 18 year long marriage. Despite the affair, Ken Dearden and his wife, Emily Dearden, were still living together with their two daughters when the shooting occurred. Even after Emily filed for divorce in August 2014, the couple continued living together.

Ken Dearden said that on the night of the shooting he went looking for Emily to take him to the hospital and found her on the floor of the family room "claiming she had been hit on the head." The house alarm was turned off a few minutes earlier. At the time of the incident, the husband told Yonkers police that he thought he'd been attacked by an intruder. When police later returned to the couple's house to investigate, they found a pair of derringers (pocket pistols) owned by the couple and determined one of them had been fired. However, the bullet taken from Ken Dearden's head was too damaged for a ballistics match. 

Emily Dearden has now been charged with attempted murder. She denies the charges and is currently free on $150,000 bail. Emily has been suspended from her job as a New York Police Department psychologist and has since moved out of the couple's house. She has been ordered to stay away from her husband  and children. The couple's daughters are currently living with their father.

What is certain in this case is that Ken Dearden played the role of a fool. Despite his wife having a boyfriend, he foolishly stayed with her. A cheating wife is typically selfish and bound to do selfish things. By staying with her, a husband is asking for trouble. A wise man would let his backstabbing wife move in with her sleazeball boyfriend. Within in a year, they would probably be cheating on each other. Meanwhile, the husband would be free of his loser wife. He would be free of all her lies, manipulation and selfishness. She would now be someone else's problem. Some men, however, 
cannot handle reality. They cannot cope with the fact their marriage is a lie. Their wives make fools of them over and over again. As Ken Dearden discovered, failing to cope with reality can be hazardous to a man's well being.



January 1, 2015

American Health Care Sucks

Most doctors in the United States suck at what they do. They have significant difficulty correctly diagnosing anything other than a  textbook case. They are seemingly unable or unwilling to think.  Additionally, their solution to most health care issues is medication rather than fixing the problem. Also, there is an unacceptable delay at scheduling appointments. It can take 3 to 5 weeks to see a 
specialist. Imagine if these doctors had to wait 5 weeks to schedule a car appointment. Think they would accept it? 

Many doctors no longer work on Fridays. American Doctors seem to view Fridays as some sort of medical holy day. Working is forbidden. This holy day makes it even harder for patients to schedule a timely appointment. Friday appointments are sometimes available if there are multiple doctors in the practice,  However, some medical centers will not allow you to switch doctors for one appointment claiming your  original doctor is familiar with your case. THIS IS A LIE. Your doctor is NOT familiar with your case. Your doctor asks you the same questions at every appointment because they forget about your case. They don’t remember how your symptoms first developed nor what tests have been done. They need you to give them your health details again. Switching doctors for a few appointments should not cause any negative health issues because regardless of which practitioner a patient sees, the same questions will be asked and the same details will be needed. The reason American medical centers don’t want patients switching doctors is most likely accounting. Perhaps clinics keeps track of how much income each doctor brings into the business and pays out bonuses based on this income.

The American medical industry is giving its patients subpar treatment.

If anyone wants good health care, this blog strongly urges that person to research doctor reviews on Ratemds and Yelp before making any medical  appointment. Also, never blindly trust a doctor's diagnosis. Based on personal experience, the diagnosis is often founded on laziness as  well as the need to quickly get you out of the office so that the next cash cow (sometimes referred to as patient) can be brought into the room. Research the doctor's diagnosis on the internet. Check that it is logical for your symptoms.

Lastly, because American doctors schedule large numbers of patients during the day, any single patient will have - on average - only 5 to 10 minutes of actual consultation with the practitioner.  Therefore, before the appointment, patents would be wise to write down important questions on a piece of paper. The doctor probably wont answer  any more than 3 questions unless they require only yes or no responses. DO NOT LET THE DOCTOR TAKE THE PAPER OUT OF YOUR HAND. If they  take your paper, your questions will likely be quickly and briefly answered with very little thought. Its belter to ask your questions as if you just thought of them. You will receive a more detailed answer. The doctor will put more thought in to his or her response. If the doctor asks to see the paper simply tell them you wrote the questions in shorthand and that only you could understand the abbreviations.

Given the large amount of money, Americans pay for health care, we deserve better treatment. Fire any doctor that doesn’t give you good treatment.

December 30, 2014

Bloggers Should Not Link to Major Media Websites

It is strongly recommended that anti feminist and men’s rights bloggers not link to major media outlets when posting articles.  Outlets such as CBSNews, CNN, FOXNews, Reuters, BuzzFeed, ABCNews and the NYTimes do not allow any links within their comment section to anti feminist 
or  men’s rights websites. In fact, they rarely allow links to any websites. Additionally, some of these organization have even stopped accepting comments altogether.

Mainstream journalists want to control information. They want to take the public back to 1980 - an era where there was no internet and the media had a monopoly on information. Most news network articles are published with the intent of promoting a specific political agenda. Objectivity is rare. Many mainstream journalists openly oppose free speech. They view websites with alternative perspectives as a threat to their manipulation and control of society. Institutions such as CBSNews and BuzzFeed are notorious for banning accounts which question or oppose their political agenda. ABCNews appears to often ban comments which contradict their political agenda. Its ironic major news networks complain so much about freedom of the press yet have no problem stamping out alternative opinions.

All of the above mentioned news organizations have shown a distinct hostility toward men’s rights. Most will not publish any anti feminist viewpoints. Linking to their articles only gives major media organizations greater control over information on the internet.

When referencing a news article, the ideal solution is to state the title and date of the article. If a men’s rights blogger  or webpage owner absolutely needs to link to the news story, use the "Nofollow" attribute when linking. Bloggers outside the men's movement should also 
use these recommendations.

The era of media information monopoly is over. Don’t let them bring it back.

December 27, 2014